Hello. I am very sorry to hear about your son, Lucas, with his medical situation.
I have had Crohn's Disease now for 15 years. Two major surgeries later and I am now in remission.
If there is anything you would like to talk about concerning this disease or if you just need to get some input from someone who knows this disease well, please contact me. I have added you, I hope you don't mind. Please add me back if you like.
Take care and hope to hear from you soon!